Win her on your first date

First Date

It’s judgement day! She could be the one! Maybe this is the first time you’ll see her personally (if you met her online) or maybe this is the first time you’ll take her out on a date, so don’t make this your last.

Different questions spin around your head on how to make that first date an ultimate success. You don’t want to mess up. But how…

PLAN

Always have a plan. Know where to take her, (if she’s Russian, Asian or a Latin Woman – These are a few things you should consider to know what kind of food she likes) and know when the perfect time is (lunch or dinner). You should always make sure that the place is comfortable and is a good place wherein you can really talk to each other. It doesn’t have to be in a fancy restaurant. As long as you guys can interact and have fun. Make sure you have a back-up plan as well; in case something goes wrong.

FIRST IMPRESSION COUNTS

You don’t have to pretend to be someone you’re not. You just have to dress up for the occasion, and no I don’t mean you have to wear a tuxedo on your first date. Just dress decently and properly. Shower and brush your teeth. Smell good. Trust me, girls like guys who smell good, be a gentleman and DON’T BE LATE. BE ON TIME! This will put you on a good start.

First impression

BE CONFIDENT

She probably said yes because she wants to. Women want guys who can talk to her and can initiate a conversation well. Be happy in your own skin but don’t be over confident.

LET HER TALK

You shouldn’t do all the taking. You don’t want to bore her. Listen to her and show her you’re interested about her stories as well.

AVOID TEXTING AND MAKING CALLS

It’s just rude. She’ll appreciate it if you are completely focused on your date. If the call is really important don’t forget to excuse yourself.

DO NOT BRING UP YOUR EX

This will make your date feel awkward. If she asks you, keep it short and simple and assure her that the past is past and you’d rather talk about her and get to know her instead.

COMPLIMENT HER

She dressed up to look good on your date, don’t forget to compliment her and tell her she looks beautiful. But don’t praise her too much on your first date, this may be overwhelming.

ASK YOUR FRIENDS FOR  A SECOND OPINION

They can also help you with your first date.

If you wan’t that second date, don’t be a mess and make your first date a success!
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